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About Me

Robin L Shoemaker

Robin L. Shoemaker

We are all on a spiritual path. But if we make it conscious and purposeful, we can make tremendous strides in reducing our suffering and increasing our positive emotions!

I have been married to an overt narcissist and a covert narcissist. I know what it's like. I know exactly how you feel.

When I see that Quora question, "How do I get over my trauma bond?" I just think, It is not simple. It is not quick. And it is not easy. But it can be done.


The reason we bond to our narcs speaks to the foundation of our character, a fundamental question of who we worship and why? It takes many, many insights to uncover enough truth about who we are and who others are before we are ready to tackle this most basic error.

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